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The Anger Solution: The Proven Method for Achieving Calm and Developing Healthy, Long- lasting ...

ISBN: 9780738212609 | 0738212601
Edition: 1st
Format: Paperback
Publisher: DA CAPO PRESS INC
Pub. Date: 8/1/2009

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SummaryTable of ContentsAuthor Biography
We All Have Been Angry or have been around those who are angry, and most of us have thought that the world would be better off without this intense emotion. But here's the truth: anger is not your enemy. In fact, it can be your ally, one that can save your relationship, your job, and your peace of mind.

From a bestselling author, a groundbreaking program exploring the roots of anger with practical, easy-to-use management techniques
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Introductionp. 1
Anger: The Real Storyp. 9
Why Everyone Tries to Avoid Angerp. 12
Rage: The Real Culpritp. 15
How to Tell the Difference between Anger and Ragep. 17
Soft Ragep. 24
The Five Things People Do When They Think They Are Expressing Healthy Discontentp. 25
Four Styles of Ragep. 33
Enraged or Outraged?p. 35
Emotional Regression: The Secret Behind Anger and Ragep. 39
The Brain and Regressionp. 44
Emotional Regression: A "Present-Person/People Eraser"p. 46
Three Directions of Relationships and Regressionp. 50
Other Potential Regressorsp. 50
Preconditions for Regressionp. 56
Signs of Regressionp. 60
Passivity: The Hidden Producer of Ragep. 85
Two Types of Adult Passivityp. 90
Three Types of Passivity in Childrenp. 91
How to Identify Passivity in Yourselfp. 92
Signs of Problems with Passivityp. 94
Passivity and Ragep. 97
Fear of the Word Passivityp. 98
Living Vicariouslyp. 101
Solution and Cures for Passivityp. 102
The Detour Method: The Only Tool You Needp. 107
How TDM Identifies and Works with the Causes of Regressionp. 110
The Six Questions in TDM Processp. 112
The Detour Method and Boundaries, Limits, Anger, and Ragep. 125
Why TDM Will Work for Youp. 143
What Happens When the Detour Is Not Takenp. 146
Doing What It Takes to Come Out of Anger, Rage, and Regressionp. 151
Five Keys to Bring You Back to the Present Momentp. 151
Anger Work You Can Do at Home or in the Officep. 164
Emotional Release and Dischargep. 169
Other Ways to Discharge and Releasep. 172
Dropping the Anger and Rage and Becoming Compassionately Assertivep. 173
"I" Statementsp. 180
The Compassionate Assertive Constitutionp. 186
Completing the Four Compassionate Assertive Statementsp. 188
The 5+5+5 Exercise for Increasing Clarity and Compassionate Assertivenessp. 193
Anger and Emotional Intelligencep. 197
Final Thoughtsp. 201
How to Contact the Authorp. 205
Acknowledgmentsp. 207
Further Suggested Readingp. 209
Indexp. 211
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John Lee has written fifteen books, including The Flying Boy (over 250,000 copies sold). He has appeared on Oprah, 20/20, The View, and CNN. Lee lives in Mentone, Alabama.


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