Ms. Glauber's mother never seemed to struggle to find the answers to the many questions she relentlessly asks herself: How can I make the most out of my life? How can I be less critical of myself and others? How can I find the core of contentment? For her mother, those answers appeared to be right in front of her, and now that she is gone, she yearns to understand those answers too.  That is why she decided to write about her mother's approach to life. Maybe by describing it,  she could keep her mother's spirit alive around her and share that spirit with her children, Lili and David, and with her nieces, her brother's children, Diane and Haley.   And perhaps in the process of writing, she would have a new insight into her mother's distinctive guide to happiness and share that message with others.