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If you feel trapped between extremes when you're disciplining your children, you'll appreciate the time-tested advice in this classic guide. You don't have to spank your children to get them to behave--and you don't have to worry that you're spoiling them, either. Drawing from four major child guidance philosophies, parent educator Elizabeth Crary provides dozens of examples and exercises to help you find the best way to rear your children. Without Spanking or Spoling will also help you understand:

Introduction

6

(1)

Before You Begin

7

(16)

The three-legged stool

7

(1)

Recognizing your values

8

(2)

Clarifying behavioral expectations

10

(4)

Basic temperaments

14

(4)

Self-acceptance

18

(5)

Steps in Problem Solving

23

(10)

Define the problem behaviorally

23

(1)

Gather data

24

(3)

Generate Potential Solutions

27

(1)

Evaluate, Choose and implement an idea

28

(2)

Evaluate your solution

30

(3)

Avoiding Problems

33

(16)

Adequate forethought

33

(4)

Make your expectations clear

37

(2)

Clarifying feelings

39

(8)

Follow through with your decisions

47

(2)

Increasing Appropriate Behavior

49

(13)

Attention

49

(3)

Focus time

52

(1)

Positive reinforcement

52

(7)

Praise

59

(3)

Teaching New Behaviors

62

(11)

Factors affecting learning

62

(1)

Modeling

63

(1)

Simple instruction

63

(1)

Shaping

64

(4)

Re-learn physical habits

68

(2)

Problem solving skills

70

(3)

Decreasing Inappropriate Behavior

73

(20)

Motives of misbehavior

73

(3)

Distraction

76

(1)

Assisted compliance

77

(1)

Ignoring

78

(1)

Substitution

79

(2)

Modifying the environment

81

(1)

Choosing appropriate consequences

82

(3)

Time-out

85

(5)

Negative reinforcement

90

(3)

Putting It All Together

93

(33)

First situation

93

(4)

Second situation

97

(2)

A closing

99

(2)

Appendixes

One: 150 ideas for common problems

101

(14)

Two: Summary sheets for ten tools

115

(11)

Index

126

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Without Spanking or Spoiling A Practical Approach to Toddler and Preschool Guidance

Without Spanking or Spoiling A Practical Approach to Toddler and Preschool Guidance

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