The Elements of D8ing is more than your run-of-the-mill advice column filled with witty dialogue and no purpose. On these pages, you won’t find the top ten ways to make your mate happy or pages of useless information about where to take a first date. This handbook won’t waste your time.

This is your guide for the greatest adventure you could ever hope to have—an adventure in internal discovery and self-understanding. Authors Tye Farley and Tosin Adesanya ask you to look inside to uncover your self-worth, wherever it may be buried.

With the help of this book, you’ll develop a concrete understanding of who you really are and how you can fit the way you want to, not the way society says you should. Its goal is to get you to understand how the unique you is an amazing you and how you don’t need to be anyone but your true self, despite society’s claims otherwise. With Tye and Tosin’s help, you’ll be on the path to happiness and a long-lasting, fulfilling relationship in no time.

The Elements of D8ing isn’t here to give you the answers; rather, it guides you to a place where you can find your own answers about dating, love, and, most importantly, you.